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Don't they hang out in the gay scene too? Is there any way for a woman to signal interest to men who primarily want men?
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Have you ever heard of a cis female as a permanent third in a primarily homosexual male relationship? What about sparking conversation on the street? I know gay men lust after straight men The best sex I ever had was anal-only with a straight-identified man who disclosed he was attracted to trans women. He never let me in on those adventures, but it greatly fueled my imagination.
There are gay male exhibitionists out there, of course, and some gay male exhibitionists don't care who's watching 'em fuck. As a kinky hetero woman who lusts after homo men and trans women, I can only assume you have. While it's understandably controversial , Grindr has opened its virtual doors to women as well as trans and non-binary people who are presumably looking for DTF gay dudes. Or maybe each other?
I've certainly heard of MMF throuples where one or both of the guys was bisexual.
I've seen girls evolve from Barbie-addicted pink princesses to tattoo-covered teenagers with multiple piercings. After a decade of my mailbag, there are few surprises left in the terrain of the human heart. Uncovering digressions from what we perceive to be "the norm" is what makes opening my inbox a weekly treat. As a species we are definitely not set in our ways.
You say you've always known you were gay, but the circumstances you describe won't have given you much opportunity to test the alternatives. It's long been my theory that in secondary education single-sex schools are great for girls, for whom boys are a distraction, and terrible for boys who afterwards take years to reconcile themselves to women as friends and equals.
Just look at Boris Johnson if you want a prime example. My feeling is that an absolutist position on sexuality isn't strictly necessary, and certainly not until you are well into adulthood.
Society may file its inhabitants into neatly labelled boxes, but one of our most interesting qualities is our ability to shape shift. Some argue that life is complicated enough without leaving our sexuality open to interpretation. For others it's the most predictable of their impulses and, unchallenged by fate, whole lives can be played out devoid of deviation from their chosen normality.
Like passion itself, your sexual predilection may seem overpowering — until it passes and something else takes your fancy. What you ultimately choose — if you do choose — should surely be the person who feels right, not the person boasting the correct genitalia?
Happily most of us are more than the sum of those basic parts. Who we have sex with, how we like our sex and who we fantasise about when the lights are off are frequently mysteries even to those closest to us. In many cases we're estranged from our desires ourselves, self-delusion being as powerful an impulse as any other. As citizens of a "civilised" society we try to give our brains and not our physical desires control over our actions. The alternative — a frenzy of bacchanalian cavorting with whoever takes our fancy — is exactly what monotheistic religion was invented to avoid.
Visiting the British Museum's Pompeii exhibition with my kids this week, predictably, what they were most interested in was the licentious behaviour exalted in much ancient Roman art and iconography.
We are certainly a less carnally indulgent culture.